I go to the gym to work out, not to socialize, and I'm sure ladies don't go to the gym to get hit on. But if you notice someone making eye contact and it seems as if there may be some attraction, is there a way to do it without getting a reputation as ';that guy'; at the gym?Can you give me some advice for talking to a woman at the gym?
You're correct: I found that the overwhelming majority of women were there to work out, not socialize. But there were the inevitable exceptions. The classic in-the-gym break-the-ice line: ';Can I work in with you?'; Refers to her (or him) being on a machine that you want to use (or don't want to use but you want to talk to her).
I always had the best results in striking up a conversation by being on an aerobics-machine, usually the elliptical-crosstrainer, right next to whoever I wanted to talk to. The very best of luck to you.Can you give me some advice for talking to a woman at the gym?
if you both like what you see then i reckon you should def give it a shot.
before you approach her, establish what it is you want to achieve from the conversation. do you want her name only? phone number? email address? gym partner? do you want to arrange the date there and then or do it later over the phone? don't be creepy and offer her a lift home or anything, oh, and get a few topics prepared in your head as plan B incase the conversation turns lousy.
don't big note yourself or flex your muscles during conversation. keep it cool and mellow. compliments are gold, deliver them accordingly.
GOOD LUCK :)
You could ask her how often she comes to the gym,
What is her favourite Machine to work out on,
How long she has been at the gym for,
Or you could just go straight in for it and ask about her. I don;t go to the gym to get hit on, i go to tone my self up. If someone hitted on me i wouldn't mind i would chat back etc. The only thing is, she will feel a mess seeming as everyone sweats in the gym, and isn't waring their best clothes you could just ask her on a date.
JUst say Hi i am ________ really we women are not that complicated like life simple just like you guys do..no corny pick up lines needed like ';man you are buff'; '; do you come here often'; '; whats your sign'; etc etc
Say hello and ask how long they have been working out make chit chat and maybe work up to would you like to have dinner or catch a movie.
You can give her some tips about work-out.
'what big arms you have'
your skin is dripping with sweat
say hi... and take it from there... :D
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