My man doesn't want a child, and my mom assumed that I want one. So she told me to trick him by skipping birth control pill until I got pregnant. My mom's advice didn't stop there. She told me that after I got pregnant I should not say anything to him until it's too late for an abortion. And if he's really unhappy with the unplanned baby, my mom said that I could give the baby to her and she would raise it. I thought my mom was joking, ... she was not.
What is the worst, dumbest, craziest, most wrong peice of wedding advice someone gave you?
I'm more regretful of the piece of advice I DIDN'T get. I had a small wedding..at my parent's house...and in December, my colors were red and white. We were on a budget and kept the ENTIRE thing, including my dress, under $5,000. I never knew and nobody ever suggested that I could RENT drinkware and dishes...instead of using acrylic plates and red plastic cups...and plastic wine glasses. I could just kick myself now...just that one detail and would have compeltely changed the ';class'; level of the entire event.
NObody gave me advice that was wrong or dumb...I just missed out on some I coulda used.What is the worst, dumbest, craziest, most wrong peice of wedding advice someone gave you?
My mom kept pressuring to ';give her a grandbaby'; with my (at that time) boyfrined. Thank God I wasn't stupid enough to do it. (We broke up, and less than a year later found out the girlfriend he just dumped was pregnant. He hates her guts.)
Anyways, when I told he I was going to move in with my (now) husband, to save for a wedding, she told me I was being stupid, and blah, blah blah, and stuff like that shouldn't be done before marriage.
So, it's okay to get pregnant with someone you don't want to marry, but not okay to move in with your fiance茅? Seriously...?
That's why I hate the stupid, hypocritical, witch!
That because alot of people were traveling to my wedding and staying overnight that ';it is proper etiquette'; that I provide them all with breakfast the next morning.
I checked around - - she was wrong.
my best friend and MOH told me that i shouldn't spend $700 on my dress. she says that means i am having an extravagant wedding and that $700 is way to much for a dress.
Everyone keeps telling me not to worry...the wedding/reception will be fine! It's like telling me not to breathe. Not possible.
A guest at my reception told me to ';take care of my husband just like his mother did when he was a child';..I said to her we are husband and wife not mother and child..
My brother told my husband to always agree with me. Believe me no matter how good this sounds, it gets annoying really fast.
Get married.
'; get married Steve ';.....lasted one year ...
you'll never be able to go to a club again
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