Friday, April 30, 2010

What tips/advice would you give to someone with low self-esteem?

Never underestimate your worth. No matter how low you may feel about yourself, you have so much more value than you know. Remember what they say about ';Angels Unawares';?, You may be one of them...


Also, low self esteem is a decision you make yourself. You have to choose to think better of yourself. You are your own toughest critic. If you choose to be happier and a better person, I guarantee you will be.


I used to be such a person. I thought very little of myself. One day, I got sick of feeling this way, and I DECIDED to change. I stopped caring what other people thought and turned myself loose. I am now a self proclaimed lunatic and enjoying every minute of it. And it turns out that people like me better as a happy person.


Remember, it is YOUR CHOICE as to how you feel about yourself and how you let others perceptions affect you. You don't have to be a lunatic, just be who you truly want to be. Make the choice to set your true self free and be happy with who you are!What tips/advice would you give to someone with low self-esteem?
tallk to themWhat tips/advice would you give to someone with low self-esteem?
Ask them why they feel the way they do. Is it because of personal failures in life? Or perhaps they've had rejections from the opposite sex? Tell them to find ways to feel good about themselves, such as taking up a hobby or joining a club or group. Also suggest they see a mental health expert.
It is not your fault that your parents are controlling. Their parents were the same way to them. They have overbearing parents. It's not your fault...
Tell them that if they have low self-esteem, there's probably a valid reason for it, and they should do something to make themselves worthy of esteem.
ask him or her to study the process (all the process) of human reproduction... you'll be amazed how difficult and how amny things need to be in the right place so a human being can be conceived... Then you'll understand why being alive is wonderful... It's not much but is a start...
Do good and right things. And eventually self-esteem will follow.
';...many many seekers believe with fervor and with great conviction that it will take them a very long time and much hard work to bridge the gap between where they are now and where they want to be. But it is this belief and conviction that there is this gap in the first place that creates the illusion of separation. Now if we have the courage to give up the illusion of separation, then we will find that we have no place to stand. And as we look and look we will not be able to locate ourselves. Everywhere we look we鈥檒l see nothing. We鈥檒l see nothing, and we鈥檒l see everything at the same time. So to come to this point, it takes great courage. Because if we want to know that much and see that much and be that much, we have to be willing to let go of every thought, notion or idea that we have about who we are, or about what鈥檚 true. In order to do this we have to be willing to die unconditionally to the Absolute, and we have to be willing to give everything鈥攁nd everything and everything and everything鈥攖o that and that alone; even our sadhana [spiritual practice], even that which we hold most precious and most dear to us. So that we鈥檙e left empty and naked, and we have nothing and nothing and nothing at all.';
Have more regard for yourself!
Seek counseling
TELL THEM TO LOOK AT SUM1 UGLY-IER. LOL
tell them wat is good about them and their life. make them think of their talents. if they ';cant think of any';, you tell them. never put them down about looks or abilities-- it can be frustrating, but in the end they may have a higher outlook on their lives.
It wouldn't be advice but praise. Praise them alot.
I would tell them that insecurities are a part of life and that no one is perfect.
See a therapist. It helps

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