survive the following week?Well i am off to bedfordshire fairly soon, not the county btw. What advice could you give me to?
Stay away from teenagers, avoid dark places, don't help anyone that are in the process of being mugged, secure all doors and window's and remember to unplug all electrical items before you go to bed...sleep safe and maybe we will talk later!.xWell i am off to bedfordshire fairly soon, not the county btw. What advice could you give me to?
Forget Bedfordshire, go to Thorpe Park, eat a KFC, ride on Stealth and vomit all over a group of 16 year olds.
Get yourself a nice cool summer dress and one of those hand-held battery operated fan things.
Make sure you get your rabies shots before you go.
Enjoy being in the moment. G'night.
just one day at a time.........remember the weekend cummeth
ummm......update your ipod songs?
Stay focused, don't stress ....
and stick to your own bed..lol!
My Advice is to call me and i'll sleep over!...yummy...
Friday, April 30, 2010
Do you have any basic advice for a new World of Warcraft (WoW) player?
I just started playing on Saturday. Learning the basics. Any advice you can give that might help?Do you have any basic advice for a new World of Warcraft (WoW) player?
Always start by doing quests in the starting area. Try not to skip any as most will teach you the basics of the game. Never try and rush things, if u ever run into a problem, visit the forums or ask a fellow player. Joining a guild may also help in your questing or trading. LASTLY, do not be rude(e.g leaving the party in the middle of a quest). if you are rude, most players will not like you and that will not help in your questing etc...Do you have any basic advice for a new World of Warcraft (WoW) player?
If you are in a dungeon and someone on your team yells, ';LEEROY JENKINS!'; then RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!
1) Go through the basic quests in the starting area - they'll give some good instructions on how to play your class.
2) Pick up and sell *everything*. Get bags as soon as possible - the more spaces you have, the more you'll be able to drag back to town to sell.
3) Check out the worldofwarcraft.com forums or the stuff on wowwiki.com - you can pick up some great tips on how to play. thottbot.com can help with info on quests and skills.
4) Don't be afraid to work with others - it can help get past some of those difficult spots.
5) Don't take it too seriously - you're there to have fun. If something's frustrating... step back, take a break, and try it later.
uh...never ever buy stuff (weapons, armor) from NPCs.
don be afraid to ask for help in the main channels
join a guild early, if you have a fren playing already and who is in a guild. guildies help a lot
if u are playing a hunter or warrior...can add me in msn at y_liming@hotmail.com basically i can answer everything regarding these 2 class. i been playing ever since the beta
have fun...but control urself.
cheers
Dude quit while you still have a chance. You will get sucked in and not have a life. endofstory.
Always start by doing quests in the starting area. Try not to skip any as most will teach you the basics of the game. Never try and rush things, if u ever run into a problem, visit the forums or ask a fellow player. Joining a guild may also help in your questing or trading. LASTLY, do not be rude(e.g leaving the party in the middle of a quest). if you are rude, most players will not like you and that will not help in your questing etc...Do you have any basic advice for a new World of Warcraft (WoW) player?
If you are in a dungeon and someone on your team yells, ';LEEROY JENKINS!'; then RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!
1) Go through the basic quests in the starting area - they'll give some good instructions on how to play your class.
2) Pick up and sell *everything*. Get bags as soon as possible - the more spaces you have, the more you'll be able to drag back to town to sell.
3) Check out the worldofwarcraft.com forums or the stuff on wowwiki.com - you can pick up some great tips on how to play. thottbot.com can help with info on quests and skills.
4) Don't be afraid to work with others - it can help get past some of those difficult spots.
5) Don't take it too seriously - you're there to have fun. If something's frustrating... step back, take a break, and try it later.
uh...never ever buy stuff (weapons, armor) from NPCs.
don be afraid to ask for help in the main channels
join a guild early, if you have a fren playing already and who is in a guild. guildies help a lot
if u are playing a hunter or warrior...can add me in msn at y_liming@hotmail.com basically i can answer everything regarding these 2 class. i been playing ever since the beta
have fun...but control urself.
cheers
Dude quit while you still have a chance. You will get sucked in and not have a life. endofstory.
Do you have any advice on making out?
I love my boyfriend and all,
but sometimes things get a little dull.
Any advice on how to spice it up?Do you have any advice on making out?
use some paprika and hot sauce and cayenne pepper.Do you have any advice on making out?
yep =]
by makin out u mean??
Well get ur hand and rest it on his chest 4 like 2 seconds and then bring it down all the way down his stomach till u reach the top of his pants and stop
this'll make him go 4 da hunt hehehe
also as yous are making out hold ur arm low like just above his bum guys supposed 2 like that i herd
and also give his cheek a brush when yous are kissing
hope this helps =]
lick his teeth, suck/gently bite his lip and pull away from his face for a second and glare him in the eye. This really gets me fired up. Makes you seem like some sort of animal.
Go out at some other place than you routine.
If you are daring enough, some public place would spice that up.
just make him think you really want to make out and get allover him
but sometimes things get a little dull.
Any advice on how to spice it up?Do you have any advice on making out?
use some paprika and hot sauce and cayenne pepper.Do you have any advice on making out?
yep =]
by makin out u mean??
Well get ur hand and rest it on his chest 4 like 2 seconds and then bring it down all the way down his stomach till u reach the top of his pants and stop
this'll make him go 4 da hunt hehehe
also as yous are making out hold ur arm low like just above his bum guys supposed 2 like that i herd
and also give his cheek a brush when yous are kissing
hope this helps =]
lick his teeth, suck/gently bite his lip and pull away from his face for a second and glare him in the eye. This really gets me fired up. Makes you seem like some sort of animal.
Go out at some other place than you routine.
If you are daring enough, some public place would spice that up.
just make him think you really want to make out and get allover him
What is the best advice you can give to someone?
tell yourself that you never look back cause you're not going that wayWhat is the best advice you can give to someone?
Never give advice to anyone..Let them learn from their own mistakes!
Never give advice to anyone..Let them learn from their own mistakes!
What to do if you found out your child did drugs? advice?
I found out my teen child useing drugs; some light some serious all illegal. My child doesn't know that I know, how should I approach this and handle this situation?? any advice?? thanksWhat to do if you found out your child did drugs? advice?
maybe just talk to your kid about drugs and how they afect everything... weight, mental health, physical health etc etc..
i wouldnt just like attack your kid, because im pretty sure my mum knows im on drugs, and if she did that then i would become a complete rebel and proabably do it more.
so mayeb just warn them about risks and stuff liek that, go talk to your gp or counseller and ask for some tactics about how to approach it.
goodluck
xxWhat to do if you found out your child did drugs? advice?
i know this is hard for you and very scarey. you see the thing is that you are in a very nasty situation. what you have to is sit your child down for a talk not a screaming match. talk to him and tell him that you know he does drugs and that you are there for him and that you do not like what he is doing and explain the dangers, but what ever you do, do not loose your temper because your childs behaviour is unpredictable because of the drugs he may run away or something silly. ask him why he is doing it and see if between the two of you that you could come up with a solution, see maybe its his friends sucking him into the hell hole and he wants to give it up. when a person starts drugs and drinking all you can really do is pray that they will be strong enough to come out of it and they will realise that what they are doing is not any good. i am answering this as an ex drug addict my parents sorted me out by not fighting me all the time but being there for me to help me pick up the peices. i was horrible to them but they still showed me they loved me and still cared for me, thats imperative to show your child you love them and care no matter what they do.. good luck anyway i hope he sorts himself out
As someone who's experimented before...
To begin with, don't be too harsh, instead, try to understand. If you've never tried anything yourself, there's an entire world that your child has probably experienced that you never have. As far as drugs go, my general advice is to focus on harm reduction. In many cases, the drugs themselves do far less damage than reactions from family and the law. Some drugs, such as pot, are relatively harmless--more harmless, in fact, than legal drugs like alcohol or nicotine. If the substance isn't physically addictive and there's no risk of ODing, then there really isn't a problem. Experimentation can be healthy and natural, but moderation is key, as are factors such as set and setting. Honestly, it really depends on which drugs you're talking about. If your kid's into heroin, you've probably got a problem. But on a similar note, I've never met a violent stoner, and in my own experience, they're some of the most accepting and relaxed people I've encountered. What you do need to stress, however, as a parent, is that decisions that your child makes don't just affect them, but the larger world. Make sure your child knows the consequences of drug use, but at the same time, don't demonize it, or you won't be able to relate to your child. I'd also recommend doing some research of your own into the substances in question. A lot of the risks associated with drug use can be avoided if people would first take the time to do their research, and take into consideration such things as set and setting.
Quite frankly, I'd love it if I could be able to talk with people who are close to me about experiences that I've had. The fact that someone chooses to use drugs doesn't make that person evil. There's a major difference between casual/recreational use and flat-out abuse. Thomas Jefferson smoked weed, and he didn't turn out too badly.
Above all, make sure your child knows that you're there for him/her, no matter what happens, and that you'll not stop loving them or being there for support, no matter what happens.
Take time to sit and discuss it - I can tell you will because otherwise you'd have gone mad, tied them in the closet and wouldn't write the question! But you probably want to look into why they're taking them. Depression, bipolar, repressed trauma like sexual abuse, abandonment from one or both parents - all these heebie-jeebie things can makes drugs a lot more of a problem for teens than the normal enough experimenting. I'd do some investigation and soul searching before I'd appraoch them. But once you sit with them, be prepared to get anything from an emotional avalanche to a cold too-cool response that you mightn't like. So brace yourself. And also, no matter what they tell you - even the most valid reason i nthe world, make sure it's clear that their behaviour isn't tolerated or acceptable. you're the parent and you have a responsibility to put up boundaries and accountable measures. If they can't be trusted in certain company, alone etc, then you need to remove those privledges until they earn your trust. Just make sure it's a reasonable compromise and they know they're loved because they're becoming a young adult and deserve respect as another human, as well as a way out from a loving parent.
Id start with showing him/her consequences of drug use. Physical, emotional, and legal. How they drugs he/she took are physically damaging to the user, how they ruin relationships with friends and family and prevent new healthy relationships from starting, and legal troubble.. All three consequences are LIFETIME consequences... I was arrested a single time. I lost 90% of my friends, my job, but luckily i have a loving family that has never left my side. But I'll forvever be inconvienced when filling out a job aplication, and when I'll never talk to old friends again. If you can get the point across to your child and truely have them understand that a moments decision can cause a lifetime of burden, they just mite go about things a little differently.. Make sure they look you in the eye. If they look down the whole time, 50% of what you say will not stick. But always be weary in the future. If its a serisous problem, you'll know when it may be going on again. Its been said that rehab the first time is a gift. And the second time is a *****. Stay strong, best of luck. Anything you do will be positive.
i think you should just sit down and talk about them with you child. don't tell him/her that you know because s/he will clam up and maybe go of the rails thinking that you have been snooping. just say that you think that s/he is at that age now where you think you should talk about them and maybe ask if s/he has tried them. if s/he says no them accept that and just go on to ask if they know the dangers or using illegal substances. also find website and find out about other peoples stories about how people have died from using them.
im a teenager and i have to say
one of the WORST feelings is letting your parents down
but i totally believe in tought love because
telling kids to stop, doesnt help
so my opinion is to send him or her to a
harsh teen rehab program
and let them know how dissappointed you are in them
and it might make an exmple for the other kids
he/she does drugs with.
as a teenager thats what i would want my mother to do
if i did drugs
Beat 'em!
Actually, I'm kidding. You should look at this in a rational way. The kid, who I imagine is somewhere between thirteen and sixteen? is probably under alot of peer pressure at school and I doubt is a hype. You should sit the kid down, explain what could come from this. Show him/her examples...pictures, perhaps, online, of druggies and what they come to look like. Give him/her a first hand look at this.
If its experimentational drugs like pot or mushrooms, don't be harsh: those, unless laced with some chemical or other drug, are absolutely not harmful on the body in the least and have no long-term effects, negative or positive. But if its something like LSD, Cocaine, heroine...you should definately give the kid a long lecture.
Now, I'm not a parent. I'm twenty years old and I've never done a drug in my life: I'm looking at this through the eyes of someone who feels very deeply about their loved ones (future children included), and I'm telling you what I would do. Reason with him/her, teach him/her what this can do. But don't put a leash on the kid unless there is no other choice. Make him/her see your side of the situtation. And always, always make sure the child knows you love him/her more then anything: that bond, if all else fails, is your last hope of getting through to them to stress this fact. You should never, ever make your kid feel like you don't love them and if you come down on the kid with an iron fist, that is whats going to happen. Get the kid involved in some after school programs, keep them busy. Let them play more games, hell, get them a new game system. I've always been into writing myself, fictional stories about dragons and all that fun stuff...
Anyways, I digress. Examples. Show this kid what will happen if he/she continues to use drugs (assuming they're bad drugs) and teach them that there are many, many crowds a kid can fit into. The 'in' crowd that does drugs is not the one to want to fit into, at all. Personally, I prefer the nerds!
my mom woop my *** when she found out that i was on drugs,and alcohol and ecstacy and speed etc...and i turned out good.... not great.you should punish or woop the kids ***.teach him a lesson he wont forget.
beat the fuc***S
just tell them u no, ur not gona stop them
if theyre in control tho leave them
i use hard drugs and im fine, i do well in college and im in good health, drugs arent as bad as the media makes them out to be
There are agencies who deals with this problem don't be agfraid they are professionals. Better do it now than be late- - - drug eaters heal themselves. God bless you and your child.
I would sit and talk to them and lock them in their room for the next 3mnths.
how bout....beatin hiz azz! lol
I would say that you need to indeed talk to your kid.
And no use delaying it at all.
Just go ahead......acne scars treatment
maybe just talk to your kid about drugs and how they afect everything... weight, mental health, physical health etc etc..
i wouldnt just like attack your kid, because im pretty sure my mum knows im on drugs, and if she did that then i would become a complete rebel and proabably do it more.
so mayeb just warn them about risks and stuff liek that, go talk to your gp or counseller and ask for some tactics about how to approach it.
goodluck
xxWhat to do if you found out your child did drugs? advice?
i know this is hard for you and very scarey. you see the thing is that you are in a very nasty situation. what you have to is sit your child down for a talk not a screaming match. talk to him and tell him that you know he does drugs and that you are there for him and that you do not like what he is doing and explain the dangers, but what ever you do, do not loose your temper because your childs behaviour is unpredictable because of the drugs he may run away or something silly. ask him why he is doing it and see if between the two of you that you could come up with a solution, see maybe its his friends sucking him into the hell hole and he wants to give it up. when a person starts drugs and drinking all you can really do is pray that they will be strong enough to come out of it and they will realise that what they are doing is not any good. i am answering this as an ex drug addict my parents sorted me out by not fighting me all the time but being there for me to help me pick up the peices. i was horrible to them but they still showed me they loved me and still cared for me, thats imperative to show your child you love them and care no matter what they do.. good luck anyway i hope he sorts himself out
As someone who's experimented before...
To begin with, don't be too harsh, instead, try to understand. If you've never tried anything yourself, there's an entire world that your child has probably experienced that you never have. As far as drugs go, my general advice is to focus on harm reduction. In many cases, the drugs themselves do far less damage than reactions from family and the law. Some drugs, such as pot, are relatively harmless--more harmless, in fact, than legal drugs like alcohol or nicotine. If the substance isn't physically addictive and there's no risk of ODing, then there really isn't a problem. Experimentation can be healthy and natural, but moderation is key, as are factors such as set and setting. Honestly, it really depends on which drugs you're talking about. If your kid's into heroin, you've probably got a problem. But on a similar note, I've never met a violent stoner, and in my own experience, they're some of the most accepting and relaxed people I've encountered. What you do need to stress, however, as a parent, is that decisions that your child makes don't just affect them, but the larger world. Make sure your child knows the consequences of drug use, but at the same time, don't demonize it, or you won't be able to relate to your child. I'd also recommend doing some research of your own into the substances in question. A lot of the risks associated with drug use can be avoided if people would first take the time to do their research, and take into consideration such things as set and setting.
Quite frankly, I'd love it if I could be able to talk with people who are close to me about experiences that I've had. The fact that someone chooses to use drugs doesn't make that person evil. There's a major difference between casual/recreational use and flat-out abuse. Thomas Jefferson smoked weed, and he didn't turn out too badly.
Above all, make sure your child knows that you're there for him/her, no matter what happens, and that you'll not stop loving them or being there for support, no matter what happens.
Take time to sit and discuss it - I can tell you will because otherwise you'd have gone mad, tied them in the closet and wouldn't write the question! But you probably want to look into why they're taking them. Depression, bipolar, repressed trauma like sexual abuse, abandonment from one or both parents - all these heebie-jeebie things can makes drugs a lot more of a problem for teens than the normal enough experimenting. I'd do some investigation and soul searching before I'd appraoch them. But once you sit with them, be prepared to get anything from an emotional avalanche to a cold too-cool response that you mightn't like. So brace yourself. And also, no matter what they tell you - even the most valid reason i nthe world, make sure it's clear that their behaviour isn't tolerated or acceptable. you're the parent and you have a responsibility to put up boundaries and accountable measures. If they can't be trusted in certain company, alone etc, then you need to remove those privledges until they earn your trust. Just make sure it's a reasonable compromise and they know they're loved because they're becoming a young adult and deserve respect as another human, as well as a way out from a loving parent.
Id start with showing him/her consequences of drug use. Physical, emotional, and legal. How they drugs he/she took are physically damaging to the user, how they ruin relationships with friends and family and prevent new healthy relationships from starting, and legal troubble.. All three consequences are LIFETIME consequences... I was arrested a single time. I lost 90% of my friends, my job, but luckily i have a loving family that has never left my side. But I'll forvever be inconvienced when filling out a job aplication, and when I'll never talk to old friends again. If you can get the point across to your child and truely have them understand that a moments decision can cause a lifetime of burden, they just mite go about things a little differently.. Make sure they look you in the eye. If they look down the whole time, 50% of what you say will not stick. But always be weary in the future. If its a serisous problem, you'll know when it may be going on again. Its been said that rehab the first time is a gift. And the second time is a *****. Stay strong, best of luck. Anything you do will be positive.
i think you should just sit down and talk about them with you child. don't tell him/her that you know because s/he will clam up and maybe go of the rails thinking that you have been snooping. just say that you think that s/he is at that age now where you think you should talk about them and maybe ask if s/he has tried them. if s/he says no them accept that and just go on to ask if they know the dangers or using illegal substances. also find website and find out about other peoples stories about how people have died from using them.
im a teenager and i have to say
one of the WORST feelings is letting your parents down
but i totally believe in tought love because
telling kids to stop, doesnt help
so my opinion is to send him or her to a
harsh teen rehab program
and let them know how dissappointed you are in them
and it might make an exmple for the other kids
he/she does drugs with.
as a teenager thats what i would want my mother to do
if i did drugs
Beat 'em!
Actually, I'm kidding. You should look at this in a rational way. The kid, who I imagine is somewhere between thirteen and sixteen? is probably under alot of peer pressure at school and I doubt is a hype. You should sit the kid down, explain what could come from this. Show him/her examples...pictures, perhaps, online, of druggies and what they come to look like. Give him/her a first hand look at this.
If its experimentational drugs like pot or mushrooms, don't be harsh: those, unless laced with some chemical or other drug, are absolutely not harmful on the body in the least and have no long-term effects, negative or positive. But if its something like LSD, Cocaine, heroine...you should definately give the kid a long lecture.
Now, I'm not a parent. I'm twenty years old and I've never done a drug in my life: I'm looking at this through the eyes of someone who feels very deeply about their loved ones (future children included), and I'm telling you what I would do. Reason with him/her, teach him/her what this can do. But don't put a leash on the kid unless there is no other choice. Make him/her see your side of the situtation. And always, always make sure the child knows you love him/her more then anything: that bond, if all else fails, is your last hope of getting through to them to stress this fact. You should never, ever make your kid feel like you don't love them and if you come down on the kid with an iron fist, that is whats going to happen. Get the kid involved in some after school programs, keep them busy. Let them play more games, hell, get them a new game system. I've always been into writing myself, fictional stories about dragons and all that fun stuff...
Anyways, I digress. Examples. Show this kid what will happen if he/she continues to use drugs (assuming they're bad drugs) and teach them that there are many, many crowds a kid can fit into. The 'in' crowd that does drugs is not the one to want to fit into, at all. Personally, I prefer the nerds!
my mom woop my *** when she found out that i was on drugs,and alcohol and ecstacy and speed etc...and i turned out good.... not great.you should punish or woop the kids ***.teach him a lesson he wont forget.
beat the fuc***S
just tell them u no, ur not gona stop them
if theyre in control tho leave them
i use hard drugs and im fine, i do well in college and im in good health, drugs arent as bad as the media makes them out to be
There are agencies who deals with this problem don't be agfraid they are professionals. Better do it now than be late- - - drug eaters heal themselves. God bless you and your child.
I would sit and talk to them and lock them in their room for the next 3mnths.
how bout....beatin hiz azz! lol
I would say that you need to indeed talk to your kid.
And no use delaying it at all.
Just go ahead......
What is the best advice you can give to your Muslim sister/brother who is going to get married?
hahaha..like lawrence of Arabia said :P
be realistic,marhama,don't try to change your husband to the way you want,but adopt yourself to your differences....so he can do that too.and learn to choose ur battles:P no seriously there are some time when it's best to let things go,if u pick on everything,then u'll rarely be happy,nor he will.
i advice you to remember how's ur relationship with ur husband is observed by Allah,yet don't give up the rights that Allah gave u...you are your husband's ''partner'' not a slave.
and for the brother is to fear Allah in how he treats his wife,because he'll be asked about her by Allah,and to be patient and not to ask her more that she can bare.What is the best advice you can give to your Muslim sister/brother who is going to get married?
Dear Marhama,salam for you. My advice for brothers and sisters who are going to get married are :
1)select your would be spose whether he is handsome or she is beautiful physically is easier to be seen
2)select your would be spouse whether he/she is a descendant of good parents or bad parents
3)select your would be spouse whether he/she is wealthy person or a poor one or he/she has a permanent job with enough income or not for raising a family aspecially for man
4)select your would be spouse whether his/her islamic religion and his/her faith is in good or bad practice.
The 4 requirements are said by Muhammad pbuh in his hadith.But the most important please choose the best practice of his/her religion especially for a would be husband,because he will be the leader of the family.The wealth can be searched for,the handsome body will be bad in his old age,bad ancestor can be improved.But his religion will last longer until died and it will help the whole family to heaven.Insya Allah May Allah bless you all.What is the best advice you can give to your Muslim sister/brother who is going to get married?
“The best wife is the one who knows how to create harmony in her marriage and strikes a balance between obeying and respecting her husband and expressing her own strong personality.”
Some of these characteristics and attitudes are those of which a wise mother advised her daughter before marriage, which is comprehensive advice. We ask Allaah to help you to achieve this. That mother said to her daughter:
“O my daughter, you are leaving your house in which you grew up, and going to live with a man whom you do not know, a companion whom you are unfamiliar with. Be like a slave woman to him and he will be like a slave to you. Remember ten characteristics which will be a stored treasure for you:
The first and second are to be devoted to him and be content, listen to him and obey.
The third and the fourth are to consider his nose and eyes; do not let him see anything ugly of you, or let him smell anything but a good fragrance.
The fifth and the sixth are consider the time of his sleeping and eating, for hunger burns and disturbance of sleep causes anger.
The seventh and the eighth are to look after his wealth and to take care of his family and his dependents.
The ninth and the tenth are to look after his wealth and take care of his dependents.”
- respect his/her family, this is the root of a person, you take care of the root, the trees becomes nice.
- learn to communicate with the person, and laugh with him/her.
- forgive
- if you are a guy, don't have too much sex, because it will decline later and she will notice the difference, and may doubt your strength.
- don't say ';i love you'; too much, it loses its value.
- don't live in a house that takes 60% of both of your income.
- put Allah before the two of you.
- be clean. with cleaning it comes freshness.
- miss each other sometime, by taking vacation from marriage once in a while, such as the husband go for a business trip. you will miss each other again.
as long as both of your deen is in the right place nothing can come in between, because one will live the life as it says in the quran in how to teat your wife or how the wife to be with her husband. i gave a book called the ideal muslmah for the wife and the ideal muslim for the guy, it shows how to be.
be willing to share everything.
always be open and honest.
be patient through the hard times.
don't forget Allah.
set common goals.
fights will happen and your feelings will be hurt. When it happens, try to resolve the problem rather than letting it go.
When you fight, never insult each other intentionally.
Don't give up easily if you're having problems.
Have fun together...watch a movie, go out for dinner, go shopping together, play a game...do something you both can enjoy together.
be realistic, know that marriage is a partnership, be flexible but not a door mat, be patient, and above all make sure you marry Mr right, not Mr right now
congratulation's
remember that allah always comes first. Do not let anyone get in your way. Live a healthy and Islamic life with your spouse. If you have children raise them on the manners and rules of Islam
Patience....
patience.......
I don't think you understand....so listen one more time
patience......
love for all, hatred for none
don't give any advice if not asked. As the saying goes ';if it ain't broken,don't fix it';
Walk on the path of Islam
no matter what happens
then InshaAllah you will truly be Sucessful in life and after death
Yes. Find the book: ';Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus';. It's in very easy English.
close ur eyes on the mistake of ur wife, and love her as much as she shy.
be realistic,marhama,don't try to change your husband to the way you want,but adopt yourself to your differences....so he can do that too.and learn to choose ur battles:P no seriously there are some time when it's best to let things go,if u pick on everything,then u'll rarely be happy,nor he will.
i advice you to remember how's ur relationship with ur husband is observed by Allah,yet don't give up the rights that Allah gave u...you are your husband's ''partner'' not a slave.
and for the brother is to fear Allah in how he treats his wife,because he'll be asked about her by Allah,and to be patient and not to ask her more that she can bare.What is the best advice you can give to your Muslim sister/brother who is going to get married?
Dear Marhama,salam for you. My advice for brothers and sisters who are going to get married are :
1)select your would be spose whether he is handsome or she is beautiful physically is easier to be seen
2)select your would be spouse whether he/she is a descendant of good parents or bad parents
3)select your would be spouse whether he/she is wealthy person or a poor one or he/she has a permanent job with enough income or not for raising a family aspecially for man
4)select your would be spouse whether his/her islamic religion and his/her faith is in good or bad practice.
The 4 requirements are said by Muhammad pbuh in his hadith.But the most important please choose the best practice of his/her religion especially for a would be husband,because he will be the leader of the family.The wealth can be searched for,the handsome body will be bad in his old age,bad ancestor can be improved.But his religion will last longer until died and it will help the whole family to heaven.Insya Allah May Allah bless you all.What is the best advice you can give to your Muslim sister/brother who is going to get married?
“The best wife is the one who knows how to create harmony in her marriage and strikes a balance between obeying and respecting her husband and expressing her own strong personality.”
Some of these characteristics and attitudes are those of which a wise mother advised her daughter before marriage, which is comprehensive advice. We ask Allaah to help you to achieve this. That mother said to her daughter:
“O my daughter, you are leaving your house in which you grew up, and going to live with a man whom you do not know, a companion whom you are unfamiliar with. Be like a slave woman to him and he will be like a slave to you. Remember ten characteristics which will be a stored treasure for you:
The first and second are to be devoted to him and be content, listen to him and obey.
The third and the fourth are to consider his nose and eyes; do not let him see anything ugly of you, or let him smell anything but a good fragrance.
The fifth and the sixth are consider the time of his sleeping and eating, for hunger burns and disturbance of sleep causes anger.
The seventh and the eighth are to look after his wealth and to take care of his family and his dependents.
The ninth and the tenth are to look after his wealth and take care of his dependents.”
- respect his/her family, this is the root of a person, you take care of the root, the trees becomes nice.
- learn to communicate with the person, and laugh with him/her.
- forgive
- if you are a guy, don't have too much sex, because it will decline later and she will notice the difference, and may doubt your strength.
- don't say ';i love you'; too much, it loses its value.
- don't live in a house that takes 60% of both of your income.
- put Allah before the two of you.
- be clean. with cleaning it comes freshness.
- miss each other sometime, by taking vacation from marriage once in a while, such as the husband go for a business trip. you will miss each other again.
as long as both of your deen is in the right place nothing can come in between, because one will live the life as it says in the quran in how to teat your wife or how the wife to be with her husband. i gave a book called the ideal muslmah for the wife and the ideal muslim for the guy, it shows how to be.
be willing to share everything.
always be open and honest.
be patient through the hard times.
don't forget Allah.
set common goals.
fights will happen and your feelings will be hurt. When it happens, try to resolve the problem rather than letting it go.
When you fight, never insult each other intentionally.
Don't give up easily if you're having problems.
Have fun together...watch a movie, go out for dinner, go shopping together, play a game...do something you both can enjoy together.
be realistic, know that marriage is a partnership, be flexible but not a door mat, be patient, and above all make sure you marry Mr right, not Mr right now
congratulation's
remember that allah always comes first. Do not let anyone get in your way. Live a healthy and Islamic life with your spouse. If you have children raise them on the manners and rules of Islam
Patience....
patience.......
I don't think you understand....so listen one more time
patience......
love for all, hatred for none
don't give any advice if not asked. As the saying goes ';if it ain't broken,don't fix it';
Walk on the path of Islam
no matter what happens
then InshaAllah you will truly be Sucessful in life and after death
Yes. Find the book: ';Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus';. It's in very easy English.
close ur eyes on the mistake of ur wife, and love her as much as she shy.
Have you got any advice on women's self defence in North London?
That is where, when,any other advice and how?Have you got any advice on women's self defence in North London?
never assume the attacker will always be male. so practise hitting the breast and striking the female groin. then practise striking the knees,throat ect. because striking the male groin is over rated and you cant depend on it. so practise to strike other areasHave you got any advice on women's self defence in North London?
For advice I would suggest aim for the knees, groin, neck and eyes when striking and use trips, throws and slams that hit their heads off the ground. Also many men learn woman's self defense because all it is are dirty fighting techniques.
http://www.bobbreen.com/
Check out this site. Bob has an Amazing CV and has a very good linage to Bruce Lee, he is a Student under Guru Dan Inosanto one of Bruce's closest students. Bob has a very good club. I trained under one of his students for a few years and found this very positive towards my martial arts.
and if the above doesnt take your fancy check out the google results for self defence in london below.
http://www.google.co.uk/search?hl=en%26amp;q=w鈥?/a>
hope this helps
go with the obvious stuff, knee to the groin, poke the eyes, (killin me 2 say the nxt one) nails n hair-grabbin...go for the accessible weak points such as the nose, throat and joints like knees...dont hang around...give em wateva they want n run...if they pull a knife on ye, step INTO the attack...same wit any attack, it gives them less roo to manover or get any decent velocity or power goin and they will probs drop the knife or at least will get your arm as opposed to your head...sign up 4 a class or wteva...it doesnt matter how long you've done classes tho cz when ye do get attacked ye still flinch away and panic but this styuff shud help...
i dont know about north london. but there was a guy in bournemouth called shaun osborne. he teaches something called silat. the way he teaches it is pretty simular to womens self defence so you might want to give him a call. he looks a bit like maggie smith out of harry potter, but top bloke... yeah
The System that they teach in the Tao Wing Chun Academy i found is very applicable to women and they offer a 30 day free membership.
www.wingchun-escrima.co.uk
Krav Maga classes fast effective self defence techniques great for fitness too
err your a man though?
never assume the attacker will always be male. so practise hitting the breast and striking the female groin. then practise striking the knees,throat ect. because striking the male groin is over rated and you cant depend on it. so practise to strike other areasHave you got any advice on women's self defence in North London?
For advice I would suggest aim for the knees, groin, neck and eyes when striking and use trips, throws and slams that hit their heads off the ground. Also many men learn woman's self defense because all it is are dirty fighting techniques.
http://www.bobbreen.com/
Check out this site. Bob has an Amazing CV and has a very good linage to Bruce Lee, he is a Student under Guru Dan Inosanto one of Bruce's closest students. Bob has a very good club. I trained under one of his students for a few years and found this very positive towards my martial arts.
and if the above doesnt take your fancy check out the google results for self defence in london below.
http://www.google.co.uk/search?hl=en%26amp;q=w鈥?/a>
hope this helps
go with the obvious stuff, knee to the groin, poke the eyes, (killin me 2 say the nxt one) nails n hair-grabbin...go for the accessible weak points such as the nose, throat and joints like knees...dont hang around...give em wateva they want n run...if they pull a knife on ye, step INTO the attack...same wit any attack, it gives them less roo to manover or get any decent velocity or power goin and they will probs drop the knife or at least will get your arm as opposed to your head...sign up 4 a class or wteva...it doesnt matter how long you've done classes tho cz when ye do get attacked ye still flinch away and panic but this styuff shud help...
i dont know about north london. but there was a guy in bournemouth called shaun osborne. he teaches something called silat. the way he teaches it is pretty simular to womens self defence so you might want to give him a call. he looks a bit like maggie smith out of harry potter, but top bloke... yeah
The System that they teach in the Tao Wing Chun Academy i found is very applicable to women and they offer a 30 day free membership.
www.wingchun-escrima.co.uk
Krav Maga classes fast effective self defence techniques great for fitness too
err your a man though?
My nephew is doing the ACT soon, can you give some advice?
he's good with everything except the reading section. I forgot what an ACT even is. he just says he feels like there'e not enough time. What can he do? Its really bringing his score down.My nephew is doing the ACT soon, can you give some advice?
there are a lot of educational games on the internet that can help him learn while he has fun... my baby sister is 5 and she reads good she loves them....if not spend time with him. help him with what he cant do.My nephew is doing the ACT soon, can you give some advice?
What can he do? He can take the test to the best of his abilities and get the score he deserves. Are you asking for cheating tips?
You may be able to have him apply for extra time on the test, based on his academic ability.
there are a lot of educational games on the internet that can help him learn while he has fun... my baby sister is 5 and she reads good she loves them....if not spend time with him. help him with what he cant do.My nephew is doing the ACT soon, can you give some advice?
What can he do? He can take the test to the best of his abilities and get the score he deserves. Are you asking for cheating tips?
You may be able to have him apply for extra time on the test, based on his academic ability.
What is the worst, dumbest, craziest, most wrong peice of wedding advice someone gave you?
My man doesn't want a child, and my mom assumed that I want one. So she told me to trick him by skipping birth control pill until I got pregnant. My mom's advice didn't stop there. She told me that after I got pregnant I should not say anything to him until it's too late for an abortion. And if he's really unhappy with the unplanned baby, my mom said that I could give the baby to her and she would raise it. I thought my mom was joking, ... she was not.
What is the worst, dumbest, craziest, most wrong peice of wedding advice someone gave you?
I'm more regretful of the piece of advice I DIDN'T get. I had a small wedding..at my parent's house...and in December, my colors were red and white. We were on a budget and kept the ENTIRE thing, including my dress, under $5,000. I never knew and nobody ever suggested that I could RENT drinkware and dishes...instead of using acrylic plates and red plastic cups...and plastic wine glasses. I could just kick myself now...just that one detail and would have compeltely changed the ';class'; level of the entire event.
NObody gave me advice that was wrong or dumb...I just missed out on some I coulda used.What is the worst, dumbest, craziest, most wrong peice of wedding advice someone gave you?
My mom kept pressuring to ';give her a grandbaby'; with my (at that time) boyfrined. Thank God I wasn't stupid enough to do it. (We broke up, and less than a year later found out the girlfriend he just dumped was pregnant. He hates her guts.)
Anyways, when I told he I was going to move in with my (now) husband, to save for a wedding, she told me I was being stupid, and blah, blah blah, and stuff like that shouldn't be done before marriage.
So, it's okay to get pregnant with someone you don't want to marry, but not okay to move in with your fiance茅? Seriously...?
That's why I hate the stupid, hypocritical, witch!
That because alot of people were traveling to my wedding and staying overnight that ';it is proper etiquette'; that I provide them all with breakfast the next morning.
I checked around - - she was wrong.
my best friend and MOH told me that i shouldn't spend $700 on my dress. she says that means i am having an extravagant wedding and that $700 is way to much for a dress.
Everyone keeps telling me not to worry...the wedding/reception will be fine! It's like telling me not to breathe. Not possible.
A guest at my reception told me to ';take care of my husband just like his mother did when he was a child';..I said to her we are husband and wife not mother and child..
My brother told my husband to always agree with me. Believe me no matter how good this sounds, it gets annoying really fast.
Get married.
'; get married Steve ';.....lasted one year ...
you'll never be able to go to a club again
What is the worst, dumbest, craziest, most wrong peice of wedding advice someone gave you?
I'm more regretful of the piece of advice I DIDN'T get. I had a small wedding..at my parent's house...and in December, my colors were red and white. We were on a budget and kept the ENTIRE thing, including my dress, under $5,000. I never knew and nobody ever suggested that I could RENT drinkware and dishes...instead of using acrylic plates and red plastic cups...and plastic wine glasses. I could just kick myself now...just that one detail and would have compeltely changed the ';class'; level of the entire event.
NObody gave me advice that was wrong or dumb...I just missed out on some I coulda used.What is the worst, dumbest, craziest, most wrong peice of wedding advice someone gave you?
My mom kept pressuring to ';give her a grandbaby'; with my (at that time) boyfrined. Thank God I wasn't stupid enough to do it. (We broke up, and less than a year later found out the girlfriend he just dumped was pregnant. He hates her guts.)
Anyways, when I told he I was going to move in with my (now) husband, to save for a wedding, she told me I was being stupid, and blah, blah blah, and stuff like that shouldn't be done before marriage.
So, it's okay to get pregnant with someone you don't want to marry, but not okay to move in with your fiance茅? Seriously...?
That's why I hate the stupid, hypocritical, witch!
That because alot of people were traveling to my wedding and staying overnight that ';it is proper etiquette'; that I provide them all with breakfast the next morning.
I checked around - - she was wrong.
my best friend and MOH told me that i shouldn't spend $700 on my dress. she says that means i am having an extravagant wedding and that $700 is way to much for a dress.
Everyone keeps telling me not to worry...the wedding/reception will be fine! It's like telling me not to breathe. Not possible.
A guest at my reception told me to ';take care of my husband just like his mother did when he was a child';..I said to her we are husband and wife not mother and child..
My brother told my husband to always agree with me. Believe me no matter how good this sounds, it gets annoying really fast.
Get married.
'; get married Steve ';.....lasted one year ...
you'll never be able to go to a club again
If you've worked for a fashion magazine, I need your advice?
How far in advance are magazines are released? For instance, this is Fall season, but are they working on Spring issue now? Please answer only if you have worked on the inside.If you've worked for a fashion magazine, I need your advice?
Yes, Has for me. We'll be having our photo shoot this month for Jan. 2008 cover. That's usually how it works.
Yes, Has for me. We'll be having our photo shoot this month for Jan. 2008 cover. That's usually how it works.
I need some girl advice. What do you think I should do?
I've worked with this girl for 5 or 6 months now. She is great. Funny, kind, beautiful, the whole package. We go to two different schools. But we see each other a lot when we work together but never outside of work. We talk online a lot. We share our personal stuff with each other. I had a crush on her for a while. But now I have fallen hard for her. But I don't know if she likes me like that or not. What should I do?I need some girl advice. What do you think I should do?
Ask her out! Ask her out for coffee or dinner. Honestly, the worst thing that could happen is that she says no. Sure, it'll hurt, but she'll be missing out and there are always more fish in the sea.
Good luckI need some girl advice. What do you think I should do?
Tell her how you feel, she might feel the same way. Take a chance! If you don't tell her you might lose something you don't want to.
Ask her out?acne scars treatment
Ask her out! Ask her out for coffee or dinner. Honestly, the worst thing that could happen is that she says no. Sure, it'll hurt, but she'll be missing out and there are always more fish in the sea.
Good luckI need some girl advice. What do you think I should do?
Tell her how you feel, she might feel the same way. Take a chance! If you don't tell her you might lose something you don't want to.
Ask her out?
I want to fit my own kitchen units, do you have any advice?
I had a chap fit mine. I asked him if it was difficuly to DIY.He said the trick is to build up all your units first (don't put doors on),Fit %26amp; level base units,fit wall units,cut %26amp; fit woktops then put sink in,then put the doors on.You don't put the doors on base units when you first fit them in case you have to adjust them before the worktops go on,it's easier without doors on.Apparantley this is where alot of people go wrong!Good Luck.I want to fit my own kitchen units, do you have any advice?
yer make sure you know what your doing first
regards x kitti xI want to fit my own kitchen units, do you have any advice?
B%26amp;Q website @www.diy.com has a link that will give you an installation guide that you can dowload as an PDF file.
The best bit of advice I ever got for DIY was 'measure twice, cut once'. Best of luck.
save loads of money because it is very expensive to buy the units.
Make sure you buy wall units with the multiway in/out up/down wall brackets. This allows you to line up all the units perfectly.
Units with fixed wall brackets will be much more difficult if you don't get them fixed to the wall 100% correct.
Asume the walls are going to be out of true and wavy. Cut your worktops longer than needed. Put them in place and using a block slide across the wall and mark out the actual wall shape!
No probs unless your walls aren't even then it will be harder, floor units are simple because they are more adjustable. Either way always work to the spirit level.
*make sure you have all the bits that should be in the packs as in screws etc.
*ensure you have the right kit close to hand.
*read the instructions thoroughly.
*take your time.
good luck with your kitchen!
yer make sure you know what your doing first
regards x kitti xI want to fit my own kitchen units, do you have any advice?
B%26amp;Q website @www.diy.com has a link that will give you an installation guide that you can dowload as an PDF file.
The best bit of advice I ever got for DIY was 'measure twice, cut once'. Best of luck.
save loads of money because it is very expensive to buy the units.
Make sure you buy wall units with the multiway in/out up/down wall brackets. This allows you to line up all the units perfectly.
Units with fixed wall brackets will be much more difficult if you don't get them fixed to the wall 100% correct.
Asume the walls are going to be out of true and wavy. Cut your worktops longer than needed. Put them in place and using a block slide across the wall and mark out the actual wall shape!
No probs unless your walls aren't even then it will be harder, floor units are simple because they are more adjustable. Either way always work to the spirit level.
*make sure you have all the bits that should be in the packs as in screws etc.
*ensure you have the right kit close to hand.
*read the instructions thoroughly.
*take your time.
good luck with your kitchen!
What is the best advice anyone has ever given to you?
Be quiet! I used to have a bad habit of thinking I could tell everyone the answers they needed - and I spent little time on applying that to myself. Someone loved me enough to confront me and help me LISTEN MORE THAN I SPEAK.
That one piece of advice helped change my life. When I learned to listen and apply the truth my life really improved a bunch!What is the best advice anyone has ever given to you?
My Mom; when I got my first credit card with an available $3000.00 limit she said ';It's not money you HAVE it's money you OWE.'; Did I listen? Of course not. Did I get heavily into debt? Of course I did. Live and learn.What is the best advice anyone has ever given to you?
When you're in jail, sit down quick and keep your mouth shut!
Be yourself
That one piece of advice helped change my life. When I learned to listen and apply the truth my life really improved a bunch!What is the best advice anyone has ever given to you?
My Mom; when I got my first credit card with an available $3000.00 limit she said ';It's not money you HAVE it's money you OWE.'; Did I listen? Of course not. Did I get heavily into debt? Of course I did. Live and learn.What is the best advice anyone has ever given to you?
When you're in jail, sit down quick and keep your mouth shut!
Be yourself
Student looking for summer work in Barcelona. Do you have any advice?
Hi,
I'm from student (film%26amp;tv) from Toronto, Canada and I'm traveling to Barcelona this summer to work and hopefully improve my Spanish. Spanish is my first language but I don't practise it at home as much as I should and while I can still understand it perfectly, I can not speak it fluently. I have a place to stay free of cost, so I'm not necessarily looking for a full time job. What would you suggest I look for (kitchen work, grocery store, etc?) and how would you go about looking for it (internet, in person/resume?)
I would love to hear from people who have experience looking for work there. Thanks in advance.
DanielStudent looking for summer work in Barcelona. Do you have any advice?
Daniel,
I have something that will change your life! No harsh physical work for little pay. All I do is share information with people about their goals and ask if they or anyone they know have health issues. You don't have to worry about anything, the company ships product to your contact. This is great for both Canada and Spain because it has only been out for two years, so you are in on a fantastic ground-floor opportunity! This is my site- www.myvemma.com/jimkranos my number is on my site, so please call with your questions. Wouldn't it be great if you met a few good people (both in Canada and Spain), who know a lot of people. You would have a wonderful residual income from your travels, for the rest of your life. I am in central Illinois, this is really taking off here, because it works. We even have Dr.s and Chiro's on board, financial, real-estate, store owners, etc. This can't be sold retail, its word of mouth. All you have to do is get your parents on autoship for at least a one pack and get a ten pack to get friends and family on in Canada, and your set. No other fees. You get a free website and lots of info and help. Check this out, The woman who bought this to our area went from 200 a month to 64 thousand last month! And all she did was get 26 people to try this- they told everyone and it balooned to 18,000 in just two years! Well, I hope you are the leader type, and have ambition to succeed. Take care and call or write me- e-mail is on my site. JimStudent looking for summer work in Barcelona. Do you have any advice?
You'll probably have the most fun waiting tables, if you can get that kind of job. You can try searching stuff in the Internet, but you might be better off just scouting places once you get there and asking if they're hiring.
Ask everybody.
I'm from student (film%26amp;tv) from Toronto, Canada and I'm traveling to Barcelona this summer to work and hopefully improve my Spanish. Spanish is my first language but I don't practise it at home as much as I should and while I can still understand it perfectly, I can not speak it fluently. I have a place to stay free of cost, so I'm not necessarily looking for a full time job. What would you suggest I look for (kitchen work, grocery store, etc?) and how would you go about looking for it (internet, in person/resume?)
I would love to hear from people who have experience looking for work there. Thanks in advance.
DanielStudent looking for summer work in Barcelona. Do you have any advice?
Daniel,
I have something that will change your life! No harsh physical work for little pay. All I do is share information with people about their goals and ask if they or anyone they know have health issues. You don't have to worry about anything, the company ships product to your contact. This is great for both Canada and Spain because it has only been out for two years, so you are in on a fantastic ground-floor opportunity! This is my site- www.myvemma.com/jimkranos my number is on my site, so please call with your questions. Wouldn't it be great if you met a few good people (both in Canada and Spain), who know a lot of people. You would have a wonderful residual income from your travels, for the rest of your life. I am in central Illinois, this is really taking off here, because it works. We even have Dr.s and Chiro's on board, financial, real-estate, store owners, etc. This can't be sold retail, its word of mouth. All you have to do is get your parents on autoship for at least a one pack and get a ten pack to get friends and family on in Canada, and your set. No other fees. You get a free website and lots of info and help. Check this out, The woman who bought this to our area went from 200 a month to 64 thousand last month! And all she did was get 26 people to try this- they told everyone and it balooned to 18,000 in just two years! Well, I hope you are the leader type, and have ambition to succeed. Take care and call or write me- e-mail is on my site. JimStudent looking for summer work in Barcelona. Do you have any advice?
You'll probably have the most fun waiting tables, if you can get that kind of job. You can try searching stuff in the Internet, but you might be better off just scouting places once you get there and asking if they're hiring.
Ask everybody.
What is the best advice anyone has ever given you?
Don't mix fabrics....it burns!What is the best advice anyone has ever given you?
Keep Gods commandmentsWhat is the best advice anyone has ever given you?
Don't believe in something unseen.
think before you speak...
Trust No One.
~Fox Mulder
One word.... ';LISTEN';........ it means to hear...comprehend...and to do it.....by my father who was talking to adults when I was a child...not too interrupt was in that word concept also...
Get Baptized in the Holy Spirit!
If it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, it is a duck.
A careful man tries to dodge the bullets while a happy man takes a walk.
Don't leave your records in the sun.
Never eat anything bigger than your head.
Freedom is being able to say 2+2=4. If that is granted, all else follows.
And it's better to regret something you did do than something you didn't do.
To trust in God and His Word.
God loves you and so do I.
Wash your hands after you go to the restroom.
give more than you take.it has made me happy to be a blessing to others
To be youself and no one else, because only you can make yourself truely happy ';)
';Advice is a dangerous thing, for not even the wise can see all ends';
Gildor ';The Fellowship of the Ring';
Never change a winning game. Always change a losing game.
well the only good advice that anyone could give me is repent and believe the gospel.
Mark 1:14-15 (King James Version)
14Now after that John was put in prison, Jesus came into Galilee, preaching the gospel of the kingdom of God,
15And saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.
Dont accept fairy tales as facts because other people think they are facts
Think for yourself. And it came from a Queensryche song.
Always learn to pay attention to your surrounding.
Always tell the truth.
Boys are only interested in one thing...(good safe guard) lol
You never get something for nothing.
Silence is Golden.
Everything lawful is not advantageous.
Learn to say your sorry.
Be forgiving.
This is only a moment, it's not the rest of your life.
LIFE IS A TEST YOU EITHER GOING TO PASS IT OR FAIL IT!
Keep Gods commandmentsWhat is the best advice anyone has ever given you?
Don't believe in something unseen.
think before you speak...
Trust No One.
~Fox Mulder
One word.... ';LISTEN';........ it means to hear...comprehend...and to do it.....by my father who was talking to adults when I was a child...not too interrupt was in that word concept also...
Get Baptized in the Holy Spirit!
If it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, it is a duck.
A careful man tries to dodge the bullets while a happy man takes a walk.
Don't leave your records in the sun.
Never eat anything bigger than your head.
Freedom is being able to say 2+2=4. If that is granted, all else follows.
And it's better to regret something you did do than something you didn't do.
To trust in God and His Word.
God loves you and so do I.
Wash your hands after you go to the restroom.
give more than you take.it has made me happy to be a blessing to others
To be youself and no one else, because only you can make yourself truely happy ';)
';Advice is a dangerous thing, for not even the wise can see all ends';
Gildor ';The Fellowship of the Ring';
Never change a winning game. Always change a losing game.
well the only good advice that anyone could give me is repent and believe the gospel.
Mark 1:14-15 (King James Version)
14Now after that John was put in prison, Jesus came into Galilee, preaching the gospel of the kingdom of God,
15And saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.
Dont accept fairy tales as facts because other people think they are facts
Think for yourself. And it came from a Queensryche song.
Always learn to pay attention to your surrounding.
Always tell the truth.
Boys are only interested in one thing...(good safe guard) lol
You never get something for nothing.
Silence is Golden.
Everything lawful is not advantageous.
Learn to say your sorry.
Be forgiving.
This is only a moment, it's not the rest of your life.
LIFE IS A TEST YOU EITHER GOING TO PASS IT OR FAIL IT!
I trapped a farel cat and will get it fixed -- what advice can you give me.?
will it survive in the wild after surgery. It comes at night to eat and it is 6 months old. will it ever get tame.I trapped a farel cat and will get it fixed -- what advice can you give me.?
Good for you! This cat is young, so may be able to become tame...it is the ones that have been feral for years that are harder to tame. She may need some recovery time before releasing her again..ask the vet about not putting in the type of sutures that have to be removed as you will most likely not be able to catch her again to bring her back to the vet for suture removal. Also, ask the vet when they suggest you release her, she may need a day or so to heal before setting her free. The surgery itself should not hinder her chances of survival...but it will keep her from having many unwanted kittens who would in turn have many more. She may survive, she may not..some feral cats live for several years..others live very short lives, but you will be helping her out in either case.I trapped a farel cat and will get it fixed -- what advice can you give me.?
I just had my wild farel spayed Friday. She had to be trapped (local Paws %26amp; Claws), they took care of finances. She came back home Sat. %26amp; I didn't see her until late Sun.pm. She ate really good and then took off again. She seems fine and is eating good. She let me pet her today. Good luck!
poor thing how would u lyk it if sumome did that to u?!?!
nd if u give a aminal lyk that an operation it drastically reduces how long they live.u shud just keep it as a pet then it would have a home nd not have to survive on what ever it catches
Check online for feral cat spay and neuter. There is often a low cost or free feral spay service in many areas. Usually cats that are altered have an ear notched so that people know not to bring them in for spay/neuter again.
Not likely it will ever get tame at this age. It will survive in the wild after surgery as well as it would have before surgery. There are lots of things that can happen to feral cats, from dog attacks, to other cats attacking. People hurt them, cars run over them... all the same things that can happen to your own domestic pet kitty when you put it outside at night.
You are a kind person to take care of this kitty like you're doing.
Best wishes to you and your feline friend!
If you are considering taming this cat, a lot will depend upon whether he's a true feral from birth, or an abandoned cat that's become feral. As he visits you for food, he has some positive experience of humans, so with lots of patience, it may still be possible to tame him. The web article below has lots of information on taming feral kittens and cats that you may find helpful.
http://www.messybeast.com/feralkit.htm
Even if you never manage to tame him, by getting him fixed and providing food, you have already given him a better quality of life than the one he would have had without your help.
If it is still kittenish you may be able to train it a bit. I'd advise talking to your local shelter folks, and wearing leather %26amp; other thick materials to avoid the claws.
Good for you to have the cat fixed! Not many people would do that.
The only advice that I could give you is wear some thick gloves. Teeth and claws are sharp and cats know how to use them. Yes a fixed cat will survive in the wild and will have about as good of a chance as any other cat. Which is usually not good in the first place.
Can you tame that cat? Farm cats can be as wild as any and can be tamed, so give it a try. Good Luck!
if you keep in house you will tame it but will take time,iv got feral cat here i got fixed but let out side as i have 2 cats,but it only comes near for food not let me touch him,if i did not have mine i would kept in house
All the cats I have now were feral.
Spunky was only 10 days old. To young to be feral. But he was born and abandoned. He is 7.
Spaz was 6 months old when we caught him. As you can guess, he ';spazzed out'; when we caught him. We kept him in a cage (dog crate) till we got him to the vets (like 2 days). Then we let him out in a closed room with not a lot of people in it. After a week or so, we let him venture out. But, when he got scared, he could retreat back to his cage (door always open) to feel safe. He only wants attention when he wants it.
Orange Kitty is my rescue feral. He was feral in my back yard for 3 years before we had to catch him. He was hit by a car. He lost all but 6 teeth, 30 + stitches in his face, fixed, shots, wormed and de-flea ed...and who knows what else. He had to be caged for 3 weeks for his face to heal. I never wore gloves to feed him. He needed to learn my smell. When we could let him out, he would not leave the basement for a month. Then he found his way upstairs. A year and half later, he is the most sweet and loving cat you could ask for.
Bk (yes for black kitty) is a mama feral. We were only going to foster her/domesticate her and her 4 kittens. Now, 4 months later, we are keeping her and the kittens. She is still a bit shy, she will let you pet her when she wants to. As far as the kittens, well, they always want attention.
Feral cats are a lot of work, but they are more then worth it.
Good for you! This cat is young, so may be able to become tame...it is the ones that have been feral for years that are harder to tame. She may need some recovery time before releasing her again..ask the vet about not putting in the type of sutures that have to be removed as you will most likely not be able to catch her again to bring her back to the vet for suture removal. Also, ask the vet when they suggest you release her, she may need a day or so to heal before setting her free. The surgery itself should not hinder her chances of survival...but it will keep her from having many unwanted kittens who would in turn have many more. She may survive, she may not..some feral cats live for several years..others live very short lives, but you will be helping her out in either case.I trapped a farel cat and will get it fixed -- what advice can you give me.?
I just had my wild farel spayed Friday. She had to be trapped (local Paws %26amp; Claws), they took care of finances. She came back home Sat. %26amp; I didn't see her until late Sun.pm. She ate really good and then took off again. She seems fine and is eating good. She let me pet her today. Good luck!
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poor thing how would u lyk it if sumome did that to u?!?!
nd if u give a aminal lyk that an operation it drastically reduces how long they live.u shud just keep it as a pet then it would have a home nd not have to survive on what ever it catches
Check online for feral cat spay and neuter. There is often a low cost or free feral spay service in many areas. Usually cats that are altered have an ear notched so that people know not to bring them in for spay/neuter again.
Not likely it will ever get tame at this age. It will survive in the wild after surgery as well as it would have before surgery. There are lots of things that can happen to feral cats, from dog attacks, to other cats attacking. People hurt them, cars run over them... all the same things that can happen to your own domestic pet kitty when you put it outside at night.
You are a kind person to take care of this kitty like you're doing.
Best wishes to you and your feline friend!
If you are considering taming this cat, a lot will depend upon whether he's a true feral from birth, or an abandoned cat that's become feral. As he visits you for food, he has some positive experience of humans, so with lots of patience, it may still be possible to tame him. The web article below has lots of information on taming feral kittens and cats that you may find helpful.
http://www.messybeast.com/feralkit.htm
Even if you never manage to tame him, by getting him fixed and providing food, you have already given him a better quality of life than the one he would have had without your help.
If it is still kittenish you may be able to train it a bit. I'd advise talking to your local shelter folks, and wearing leather %26amp; other thick materials to avoid the claws.
Good for you to have the cat fixed! Not many people would do that.
The only advice that I could give you is wear some thick gloves. Teeth and claws are sharp and cats know how to use them. Yes a fixed cat will survive in the wild and will have about as good of a chance as any other cat. Which is usually not good in the first place.
Can you tame that cat? Farm cats can be as wild as any and can be tamed, so give it a try. Good Luck!
if you keep in house you will tame it but will take time,iv got feral cat here i got fixed but let out side as i have 2 cats,but it only comes near for food not let me touch him,if i did not have mine i would kept in house
All the cats I have now were feral.
Spunky was only 10 days old. To young to be feral. But he was born and abandoned. He is 7.
Spaz was 6 months old when we caught him. As you can guess, he ';spazzed out'; when we caught him. We kept him in a cage (dog crate) till we got him to the vets (like 2 days). Then we let him out in a closed room with not a lot of people in it. After a week or so, we let him venture out. But, when he got scared, he could retreat back to his cage (door always open) to feel safe. He only wants attention when he wants it.
Orange Kitty is my rescue feral. He was feral in my back yard for 3 years before we had to catch him. He was hit by a car. He lost all but 6 teeth, 30 + stitches in his face, fixed, shots, wormed and de-flea ed...and who knows what else. He had to be caged for 3 weeks for his face to heal. I never wore gloves to feed him. He needed to learn my smell. When we could let him out, he would not leave the basement for a month. Then he found his way upstairs. A year and half later, he is the most sweet and loving cat you could ask for.
Bk (yes for black kitty) is a mama feral. We were only going to foster her/domesticate her and her 4 kittens. Now, 4 months later, we are keeping her and the kittens. She is still a bit shy, she will let you pet her when she wants to. As far as the kittens, well, they always want attention.
Feral cats are a lot of work, but they are more then worth it.
Is the bible a book you can open when you need advice or consolation?
For me its a book that I open when I need a good laugh!Is the bible a book you can open when you need advice or consolation?
yes,it is :D Its really a comforting and inspirational book to read.
Also,Whenever my dad has a question,he holds it in his heart,holds a bible,shuts his eyes,runs his fingers across the pages of the closed book,opens it where his hand felt something-like an energy-and his answer is normally on the top right corner of the page he opened it to.
I tried it once.I asked if my ex was right for me and if I should still have feelings for him and when I opened the page and looked in the right corner,it said something about letting go of things that hurt you or things that make you cry you are not worth it or something :)Is the bible a book you can open when you need advice or consolation?
I can console in some areas, but unless you're seriously clever and decipher the actual meanings behind the majority,you'd be better off consoling a less biased text, the Bhagavad-Gita for example, much deeper and more rewarding.
Saying that the wisdom of Solomon is good stuff, I agree with opening a page at random and interpretating it as you see fit.
That is the whole idea of the Book! It is a record of the past, a guide to living and puts us closer to God if we take the time to just read. If you are having a hard time finding info on certain subjects in the Bible, look in the back in the concordance. You can find Scripture verses by subject.
Another handy little book is the Personal Promise Pocketbook. (Harold Shaw Publishers, Wheaton Ill.) It has over 800 Bible promises in an easy to use format. I keep it around when I am feeling really rotten and think no one understands me or cares. I spend a few minutes getting my head back on straight and can face the world again.
Yes, it is a supernatural book given by God Himself. You cannot understand it without the help of the Holy Spirit. Pray and ask for understanding and the perfect passage will be given to you. Then open the book and read it.
for me its a historical record that's been twisted and tweaked!
but if your inspired and you get hope from it yes if it makes you a better person then yes i don't believe a word of it but i wouldn't tell anyone to not read or believe if god did Create us he created us with free will so use it!
Yes.
Indeed it is book of knowledge, guidence, suggestions, proverbs %26amp; compassion.
In it you can find the advice and consolation.
While it contains philosophical truths that can offer good advice and consolation, you can't just ';open'; it and magically encounter the appropriate verses.
Yes it supposed to be. Only, I couldnt understand what the heck it was talking about when I needed advice on jealousy or lust...
Yes! My favorite verse lately is related to how I feel about Obama:
A mirror reflects a mans image but who he really is is shown by the friends he chooses.
Sure why not.I do some times.But its all up to you.God love you i do.Take care sweaty.Have a nice day.
the holy bible is a book you can use for everything in our lives. no exceptions.
Yeah, open at random, read a passage and interpret as you see fit.
if your that insane
how is retelling history going to give you advice or consolation
Yes. For example when you encounter a homosexual, you should consult the old testament.
It's daily bread. It gives you the energy to do the day.
religion is retatrded and is for morons do not botheracne scars treatment
yes,it is :D Its really a comforting and inspirational book to read.
Also,Whenever my dad has a question,he holds it in his heart,holds a bible,shuts his eyes,runs his fingers across the pages of the closed book,opens it where his hand felt something-like an energy-and his answer is normally on the top right corner of the page he opened it to.
I tried it once.I asked if my ex was right for me and if I should still have feelings for him and when I opened the page and looked in the right corner,it said something about letting go of things that hurt you or things that make you cry you are not worth it or something :)Is the bible a book you can open when you need advice or consolation?
I can console in some areas, but unless you're seriously clever and decipher the actual meanings behind the majority,you'd be better off consoling a less biased text, the Bhagavad-Gita for example, much deeper and more rewarding.
Saying that the wisdom of Solomon is good stuff, I agree with opening a page at random and interpretating it as you see fit.
That is the whole idea of the Book! It is a record of the past, a guide to living and puts us closer to God if we take the time to just read. If you are having a hard time finding info on certain subjects in the Bible, look in the back in the concordance. You can find Scripture verses by subject.
Another handy little book is the Personal Promise Pocketbook. (Harold Shaw Publishers, Wheaton Ill.) It has over 800 Bible promises in an easy to use format. I keep it around when I am feeling really rotten and think no one understands me or cares. I spend a few minutes getting my head back on straight and can face the world again.
Yes, it is a supernatural book given by God Himself. You cannot understand it without the help of the Holy Spirit. Pray and ask for understanding and the perfect passage will be given to you. Then open the book and read it.
for me its a historical record that's been twisted and tweaked!
but if your inspired and you get hope from it yes if it makes you a better person then yes i don't believe a word of it but i wouldn't tell anyone to not read or believe if god did Create us he created us with free will so use it!
Yes.
Indeed it is book of knowledge, guidence, suggestions, proverbs %26amp; compassion.
In it you can find the advice and consolation.
While it contains philosophical truths that can offer good advice and consolation, you can't just ';open'; it and magically encounter the appropriate verses.
Yes it supposed to be. Only, I couldnt understand what the heck it was talking about when I needed advice on jealousy or lust...
Yes! My favorite verse lately is related to how I feel about Obama:
A mirror reflects a mans image but who he really is is shown by the friends he chooses.
Sure why not.I do some times.But its all up to you.God love you i do.Take care sweaty.Have a nice day.
the holy bible is a book you can use for everything in our lives. no exceptions.
Yeah, open at random, read a passage and interpret as you see fit.
if your that insane
how is retelling history going to give you advice or consolation
Yes. For example when you encounter a homosexual, you should consult the old testament.
It's daily bread. It gives you the energy to do the day.
religion is retatrded and is for morons do not bother
What's the best advice that you can give to a Foreigner looking to live and work in the U.S.?
That, should you decide to come that you should,
1) Be white
2) Be rich
3) Be squeaky clean.
4) Have a degree
5) Have a desire to keep a low profile or some people belonging to a certain group will target you as an Illegal Alien.What's the best advice that you can give to a Foreigner looking to live and work in the U.S.?
I work at a small company, 12 people. Three of them are Chinese immigrants, but one has recently gained US citizenship. The other two are working toward it.
Find employment, do the paperwork come here and be welcome. Even if you do not want to become a citizen if you are willing to live as an American, respect our laws you will find this a good place to live.What's the best advice that you can give to a Foreigner looking to live and work in the U.S.?
Come to America and assimilate. America is a welcoming place for immigrants who work hard, are productive, and ASSIMILATE. You can keep your existing cultural norms, etc., but become an AMERICAN. Americans chafe at stuff like people coming here from Mexico and treating the U.S. as nothing more than a conduit through which to ship money back to Mexico.
I've assumed you want to be a citizen. If I'm wrong, ignore my answer
Get married with an american citizen is the easiest, fastest way to get your working permit and residency. Becareful with a fake marriage, they will deport you if they find out money on the table. after a couple years or a baby you will be ok if your husband wasn't what you expect.
Do it legally, and have skills that enhance and compliment the country. Assimilate to the people and the culture of Americans. Learning English will get you much farther than refusing to. It's a bigger plus if you happen to know, understand, and speak English before you come.
Give up on the idea unless you are a highly skilled person with an advanced degree in the sciences or engineering. Or unless you can find a US citizen to marry.
The other legal ways to come to the USA are essentially closed at this time.
I would tell them to find an area where some of their nationals have already taken root.
there are NO jobs in USA
they have all be sent to mexico, india and china.
try going to those places instead.
Lucky hit the nail on the head.
Do it legally.
dont let anyone take advantage of you or treat you different b/c of your race, just remember everyone here is a foreigner, and anythiing is possible you just have to work hard for it, and get an education..
1) Be white
2) Be rich
3) Be squeaky clean.
4) Have a degree
5) Have a desire to keep a low profile or some people belonging to a certain group will target you as an Illegal Alien.What's the best advice that you can give to a Foreigner looking to live and work in the U.S.?
I work at a small company, 12 people. Three of them are Chinese immigrants, but one has recently gained US citizenship. The other two are working toward it.
Find employment, do the paperwork come here and be welcome. Even if you do not want to become a citizen if you are willing to live as an American, respect our laws you will find this a good place to live.What's the best advice that you can give to a Foreigner looking to live and work in the U.S.?
Come to America and assimilate. America is a welcoming place for immigrants who work hard, are productive, and ASSIMILATE. You can keep your existing cultural norms, etc., but become an AMERICAN. Americans chafe at stuff like people coming here from Mexico and treating the U.S. as nothing more than a conduit through which to ship money back to Mexico.
I've assumed you want to be a citizen. If I'm wrong, ignore my answer
Get married with an american citizen is the easiest, fastest way to get your working permit and residency. Becareful with a fake marriage, they will deport you if they find out money on the table. after a couple years or a baby you will be ok if your husband wasn't what you expect.
Do it legally, and have skills that enhance and compliment the country. Assimilate to the people and the culture of Americans. Learning English will get you much farther than refusing to. It's a bigger plus if you happen to know, understand, and speak English before you come.
Give up on the idea unless you are a highly skilled person with an advanced degree in the sciences or engineering. Or unless you can find a US citizen to marry.
The other legal ways to come to the USA are essentially closed at this time.
I would tell them to find an area where some of their nationals have already taken root.
there are NO jobs in USA
they have all be sent to mexico, india and china.
try going to those places instead.
Lucky hit the nail on the head.
Do it legally.
dont let anyone take advantage of you or treat you different b/c of your race, just remember everyone here is a foreigner, and anythiing is possible you just have to work hard for it, and get an education..
Do I meet the requirements for modeling? And do you have any advice?
I'm 5'9, weigh 125 pounds, wear a size 4 dress and am half korean, a third polish and the rest a mixture of swedish and irish and american indian.
I want to make it in the modeling industry and was wondering if anyone had any advice or know of any sites or open casting calls that can help.Thanks =)Do I meet the requirements for modeling? And do you have any advice?
Have a look at http://www.thefashionfix.com
I don't know where you are in the world but that site seems to have good advice.
I want to make it in the modeling industry and was wondering if anyone had any advice or know of any sites or open casting calls that can help.Thanks =)Do I meet the requirements for modeling? And do you have any advice?
Have a look at http://www.thefashionfix.com
I don't know where you are in the world but that site seems to have good advice.
Poll for nurses: What advice would you give someone entering Nursing School?
Concerning tests, studying, organization, etc....what helped you succeed?
ThanksPoll for nurses: What advice would you give someone entering Nursing School?
You really HAVE to want to take care of people, because you will be doing a LOT of things that you never ever dreamed of.
The demands made on you at time will over whelm, and the Thanks are few and far between.
It really would help to work as a CNA or LPN , because even if you don't do the hands on care later on,it helps you be a better manager of not only your time, but theirs. I got the hands on experience, which is how I learn...more so than book learning.
I was never one to cram before a test, If I haven't learned the material before...cramming wasn't going to help. I read and reread the material days before any test and thought about an experience I had to help make it make sense for me.
Organization is really important. helps to be a bit anal about that! This isn't something that can be taught...you are or are not.
You have to be willing to work odd shifts, long hours, weekends and holidays. Something not everyone seems to think about before getting into this field.
Don't enter the field if it is a Doctor you are just hoping to meet and marry. You will see the long hours and difficult personalities in a lot of them and RUN!!
Rambling on here, and sorry for that.
It is at times a difficult career, a learning experience daily, but for me the most rewarding! I love being a nurse...it is just who I am.Poll for nurses: What advice would you give someone entering Nursing School?
Are you going into nursing? I know you said you were going back to school, but didn't know for what.
Anything I can do to help...give me a shout.
Thanks again, John and Good Luck in whatever you decide to be when you grow up!! :-)
Here is a great nursing forum:
http://allnurses.com/nursing-student/
My advice is to study by doing lots of NCLEX style questions instead of trying to memorize every small detail. The tests in nursing school are different than what you're probably used to.
I would also recommend that you do as much as possible in clinical. If they ask a group of you who wants to do (fill in the blank), volunteer! You can get a lot out of your clinicals, or you can skate by not doing much. I've skated by for the most part, and now that I'm close to graduation, I wish I had done a lot more.
Make sure you can be nice to patients at all times before you even start.
Make sure you don't bring your problems with you to your job.
The worst thing in the world is a mad nurse who doesn't know how to control her attitude along with her career.
Have to start there first. These days nurses are only concerned about the good money and not treating patients nice.
I'm a nursing student, and I would say you have to want it really bad...Its not easy, its alot of hard work and dedication. I always have my nose in books..hardly any free time..but it will pay off in the end. So my advice to you is only go into nursing if you really really want that to be your career. :) because its super hard and time consuming, but it will be worth it.
Goood Luck :)
Are you doing it????
GO GLUTEUS MAXIMUS - ROMAN KING!!!
You know a wise man once told me - nurses and teachers are angels without wings!!!!
dont!!!
ThanksPoll for nurses: What advice would you give someone entering Nursing School?
You really HAVE to want to take care of people, because you will be doing a LOT of things that you never ever dreamed of.
The demands made on you at time will over whelm, and the Thanks are few and far between.
It really would help to work as a CNA or LPN , because even if you don't do the hands on care later on,it helps you be a better manager of not only your time, but theirs. I got the hands on experience, which is how I learn...more so than book learning.
I was never one to cram before a test, If I haven't learned the material before...cramming wasn't going to help. I read and reread the material days before any test and thought about an experience I had to help make it make sense for me.
Organization is really important. helps to be a bit anal about that! This isn't something that can be taught...you are or are not.
You have to be willing to work odd shifts, long hours, weekends and holidays. Something not everyone seems to think about before getting into this field.
Don't enter the field if it is a Doctor you are just hoping to meet and marry. You will see the long hours and difficult personalities in a lot of them and RUN!!
Rambling on here, and sorry for that.
It is at times a difficult career, a learning experience daily, but for me the most rewarding! I love being a nurse...it is just who I am.Poll for nurses: What advice would you give someone entering Nursing School?
Are you going into nursing? I know you said you were going back to school, but didn't know for what.
Anything I can do to help...give me a shout.
Thanks again, John and Good Luck in whatever you decide to be when you grow up!! :-)
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Here is a great nursing forum:
http://allnurses.com/nursing-student/
My advice is to study by doing lots of NCLEX style questions instead of trying to memorize every small detail. The tests in nursing school are different than what you're probably used to.
I would also recommend that you do as much as possible in clinical. If they ask a group of you who wants to do (fill in the blank), volunteer! You can get a lot out of your clinicals, or you can skate by not doing much. I've skated by for the most part, and now that I'm close to graduation, I wish I had done a lot more.
Make sure you can be nice to patients at all times before you even start.
Make sure you don't bring your problems with you to your job.
The worst thing in the world is a mad nurse who doesn't know how to control her attitude along with her career.
Have to start there first. These days nurses are only concerned about the good money and not treating patients nice.
I'm a nursing student, and I would say you have to want it really bad...Its not easy, its alot of hard work and dedication. I always have my nose in books..hardly any free time..but it will pay off in the end. So my advice to you is only go into nursing if you really really want that to be your career. :) because its super hard and time consuming, but it will be worth it.
Goood Luck :)
Are you doing it????
GO GLUTEUS MAXIMUS - ROMAN KING!!!
You know a wise man once told me - nurses and teachers are angels without wings!!!!
dont!!!
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